Should I Buy My Wife A Pair Of High Heels?
October 27th, 2009
Author: She doesn’t own any. She is very conservative. We are the same height, 5’8″ so with heels she will be taller, which i find kinky. She is a little heavy. When I met her 14 years ago, she didn’t own any high heels… i have never seen her in heels but i think she would look great in them.
Should i buy her a pair?
I love my high heels with blue jeans. High heels are pretty painful and take some getting use to at first. My husband is always yelling at me to take them off because he thinks that I am going to fall and hurt myself and then I the next time that we go out I just put them right back on. There is a shiny candy apple red pair that I am eyeballing at the shoe store right now. I will probably buy them tomorrow because they are so sexy!
Take her shopping for shoes…. suggest heels. But don’t push it, sometimes us women can get insecure quickly. If you push the heel issue she may think that you’re unhappy with her, getting tired of her the way she is, all that jazz.
Anyway, if she’s kewl with trying some on compliment the hell outta her… but only if it looks good. If not, suggest something else. Key is you want her to feel comfortable and sexy in them and that is by boosting her confidence.
If you both walk out of that store with some heels then great. When she wears them be all over her as if you can’t keep your hands off of her… show her that you think she looks sexy in them, especially in the beginning when she may feel a little uneasy in them.
And hey if she decides she really doesn’t like them too much (or even if she does, which is a plus), maybe they can become a little accessory in the bedroom!
If your wife is like me, don’t do it. I hate heels and I don’t own any and never will. The only shoes I like to wear are sneakers. If my husband went out and bought a pair of heels for me, I would tell him he could wear them. If he left it up to me, they would find their way to the back of the closet or lost mysteriously and never found again. The same would go with any he would buy after that.
Heels are reeeally hard to buy for other people. Most of them are very uncomfortable. And she probably won’t be able to walk in the really high ones, if she ever wears them they’d have to be at a height that she is comfortable with.
I’d suggest something more like, “you have such great legs honey, I’d love to see you in heels” and then go shopping with her.
Of course. I think every woman on earth should know the sexy feeling of being as femenine as possible and wearing a pair of great heels.
Also, its great that after so many years of knowing your wife that you want to try new things that are kinky with her.
Good for you, and go get the heels!
maybe there is a reason she doesn’t own any heels, maybe she never learnt how to walk in heels and its very difficult if you want to buy her heels, take her shopping and encourage her to try on some heels, or buy her heels but make sure you can return or exchange them in case your she doesn’t like them. good lucks ;]
well yes and no, she might like it and think it’s sweet or she might take it offensively. she might have sore feet after heels or maybe she likes being the same height as you. ask her first, don’t buy them first say ‘hey? why dont u ever wear high heels? youd look good in them.’ and see her reaction. she’d prolly buy them herself and wear them to impress you anyway girls like buying things that make them self confident.
well, if she hasn’t owned heels for the past 14 years, maybe she doesn’t like them.
you could always suggest heels, but i don’t think you sohould go out and buy her any. i mean, i think that after 14 years+ if the woman actually wanted a pair of high heels, then sometime she would have bought a pair.
As a lover of shoes, I say YES..YES…and by all means YES!!!
Maybe she thinks you would feel uncomfortable if you were shorter then she, but if you buy her a pair and explain that is not the case, maybe she’d feel more comfortable. Although if she tells you she just plain dislikes them, dont be offended. Maybe she’ll wear them just to “play”!
BUT MIND YOU.. you may be opening Pandoras box! Once you get hooked on a little black pair of kitten heels the urges are endless
If you do, I wouldn’t go nuts and buy 6 inch pumps or anything. Maybe find a nice 1 or 2 inch heal. That way she will feel more comfortable in them. Then from there you can go taller like 3 or 4 inches. Also, I would take a look at what she already owns to get an idea on what her taste is.
Yes! I think it would be great if my husband went out and bought me a pair if heels. Now, knowing that she is on the conservative side, get something pretty in a one or two inch heel and go for real leather – something good and on the pricey side.
sure why not! but say something that wont make her think your offending her own conservative style. you could say ( hey hun, just for a little change i bought you some heels???:D i think your legs would look great in them)
by saying that i think she would consider it.
maybe she will not like it because she will be much taller than you..
like me, my husband and i were the same height too, i always use flat shoes when i’m with him…
but now he’s working abroad, i buy shoes now with heels..
A lot of women are very picky about shoes. Let here buy her own, but you can suggest the idea.
No, because if she wanted them she would own them already.
I think every woman should own a great pair of heels, but maybe your wife doesnt agree.
Well, if she doesn’t own any, then maybe it’s because she doesn’t really like them….
Try getting something else that you know she might love…. Perhaps jewelry…?
Sure. Give her a treat. Buy her one great pair of heels just as a little gift.
yes, it’d be nice of you to get her something and maybe it’ll even give your relationship a boost to try something different
Ask her if she would like to wear a pair and let her know you would like to see her in them.
Maybe just take here to a store and try a pair on to see how they look/feel as she would have to wear them
You should definentaly buy her heels. If they are glossy red, she will SURELY love them! You should buy her high heels!
Certainly. Kinky is fun!
yes.. u actually should let her see herself in them she might exactly like them n start wearing heels more often just maybe not too expensive just in case lol good luck
Buy her the heels. Even if she only wears them for you.
Im sure she’d like whatever you give her, what woman doesnt like a pair of pumps??!!
yes! i’m sure she would love that! it’s creative and it will show that you are thinking of her:] plus heels are a woman’s best friend!
totaly get some peep toe sexy red ones that will spice up her conservativeness!
sure but maybe she doesn’t like them and thats why she doesn’t own any.
It can’t hurt. Go ahead and buy some.
Yep and be sure to tell her how hot it makes you to see her wear them
only if she wants a pair and it does not seem that she does. if you want her to try them don’t buy too high heels