when you wear feminine things do you feel that you have more power especially to pursade men into doing the things that you want? what is it about high heels that make you feel more feminine/powerful?

I noticed every time i look in the mirror when i put on my high heels shoes especially those 5 & 6 &7 inch stilettos my hips & butt sticks out more in the back making it look big, and my chest sticks out more in the front?

I am wondering because dr. scholls are to expensive for me and want to think of another object like cotton balls or marshmellows that would make a high heel shoe more comfortable.

I have high arches but adore 3″ + heels. Anyway to make this love affair work without having to limp around?

When i wear high heels, after a while the balls of my feet start hurting alot and the top of my toes rub up against the shoe causing cuts and blisters. Does any one know what to do to prevent the pain, particularly the toes? How do girls dance all night long in killer heels? LOL

Just curious, I know I notice women when they wear high heels. Thanks for answering.

I would like to bring a more modern touch to go with my new kilt rather than wear ghillie brogues. Does anyone have any good recommendations they’ve either worn or seen? I will need them for a wedding so something relatively ‘smart’ would also still be excellent.