The western civilization has made some advancements when it comes to prejudices and gender equality, however the “macho” thing and people’s perception of the male body and view of men have been stuck for hundreds of years. For example men are not supposed to wear high heels or skirts without losing his manhood.Some women even envy the legs some transvestites have, so why can’t we benefit from high heels and skirts? I won’t stop liking women for wearing them.
I know it’s a mess, just express your opinion.

i was blessed with big flat feet. but now it doesn’t seem to be such a blessing. i luv shoes like high heels, flats, sandals, and pumps….but i can never get some that fit me just right. i always need the shoes to be sizes 11-12 wide width but theres not alot of shoes out there that are cyute and made for people with big wide flat feet. so can you help me by probably suggesting some stores with alot of cyute shoes in wide width sizes.

I’m an guy who loves high heels especially stiletto heels, but i have never worn them but i’ve seen girls do it a lot so i want to wear them with a skirt or something. How can i wear them with a skirt or dress in a way so people won’t discriminate me ?? Can i wear them like for a joke or what ? Can anyone please help me out !!!!!

I have been riding a street bike on and off for over 9 years. On those hot days i prefer to ride in a skirt and my thigh high leather boots but i have issues down shifting. My heel seems to get caught. How do other woman do it?? What am i missing to make it easier. (and dont tell me ditch the boots please)

i was away for half the summer and since coming back from holidays i’ve felt that my friend hasn’t put much effort into the friendship….and a few days ago it was my birthday and she said she wanted us to go to a club and she wanted to celebrate my birthday with me….but she ditched me for most of the night.
I e-mailed her the next day to tell her how i felt that i wasn’t happy about how my birthday turned out…and she got real defensive like “the night is what you make it” kinda thing and said it wasn’t her fault i had such a bad night out on my birthday……of course i did know other people there but i didnt know them as well as i know her so it wasn’t the same.
…..since we still hadn’t reached an agreement i finally told her that the reason i was makin a big fuss about it was because i’ve felt she hasn’t put that much effort into the friendship since i’ve come back from holidays and ditching me on my birthday was the tip of the iceburg for me that just set me off.
…..again she got real defensive and she said that she’s been real upset by this whole thing….(which to be honest i don’t get because i’m the one who’s upset that i feel i’ve been pulling all the weight in the friendship recently)…..but anyways, and she said sorry it took her so long to realise she’s been such a horrible friend to me….
So then i started feeling like i was the one being a b*tch and i appollogised for all thas happened and i appollogised more then once actually….the only reason i was doing it was to move on with my life and stop this b*tching and fighting………but she still hasn’t forgave me…like what the hell am i supposed to do?! she said shes so upset by what i’ve said …..so then i appollogise…..even though she should be appollogising to me…..and she doesn’t forgive me and she was like “i don’t know what to say to be honest…”
what would you do if you were in my shoes?? any advice for how to get myself out of this sticky situation??

Just curious, I know I notice women when they wear high heels. Thanks for answering.

I am very flat footed and was just wondering if wearing high heels was any better or worse for flat footed people, rather than people with raised arches.