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Wear High Heels And See The Heads Turn

Friday, November 6th, 2009

High heels are the hallmark of fashion and sophistication. They amplify the stature of a woman and make her look more alluring.

Watch a woman walk by in high heels and you can surely hear a pitter patter in your heart. It is really quite astonishing the way women balance themselves in heels. Nevertheless, they manage to look awesome in them. The sway of the hips and the gentle undulation gives a very sexy look to their being. Knowing the hypnotic effect of the heels, women are feeling inclined to search for newer types of high heels with even steeper heels to make them look still sexier. But what is it about high heel shoes that make women swoon over them and dish out large amounts of their hard earned money?

Recounting The History Of Heels

If you think about how high heels came into fashion, then it dates back to a great many centuries ago. The idea of heels occurred to Egyptians butchers first when they had to get across a horde of dead animal carcasses with blood spilt out everywhere. It was also used by horse riders to help them ride better. However, heels became a fashionable item when Catherine de’ Medici, the wife of the Duke of Orleans in 1533, wore them to increase her height. This hot idea soon caught the fancy of all other noblewomen and high heel shoes have continued to dominate the fashion world since then.

Their position in the fashion market

There have been ups and downs in the life of the high heels. They suffered a serious setback during the French Revolution. However, they soon bounced back in the nineteenth century with even newer styles and ideas. Their dominance over the fashion world was challenged by the flat-soled shoes but they resurfaced soon to be a necessary part of the dressing styles of most fashion icons. The apparel used in the twentieth century prompted the re-emergence of the heels.

Advantages of Wearing High Heels

There are various advantages why a woman chooses to wear heels.

Disadvantages of Wearing High Heels

There are many online stores which facilitate buying easily and safely. So choose a pair of high heels today and feel the confidence surge back in you.

Jackie Borman is a fashion enthusiast completely fascinated by high heels and women’s shoes. He also specializes in girls shoes and flip flops.
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What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes? Advice Greatly Appreciated And Needed! (it’s Long, I’m Sorry)?

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 years now. We’ve had our ups and downs like every relationship – sometimes we have a blast together and sometimes we dislike each other. I’ve currently run into a situation regarding my relationship and I’m having a difficult time making a decision and could really use some good advice…
Some important background information is necessary. So about five years ago or three years into the relationship, I found inappropriate conversations and e-mails trying to meet up with people that he had met in online chat rooms. I confronted him, multiple times, about all the things I found and he denied it was him at first, and then he promised never to do it again. He told me it was an outlet in which he could be himself without being judged. Ok, his mistake, maybe he had a hard time opening up intimately – I understand it’s difficult to trust people in that way. I know he loved me and would never actually go through with it, so I took his word and moved on.
Fast-forward to present time – eight years into our relationship or five years since the previously discussed scandal. I found him searching craigslist erotic services for all types of **** – men, women, trannies, orgies, etc. He’s even responded to a few ads while I was at work – saying that he was available and asking if he could meet up with these people. I don’t have any hard core evidence implying that he’s actually met up with anyone or not. I’ve been monitoring his actions for the past few months and he’s still browsing every once in a while. I know I have to confront him, but I feel like I need more hard evidence so he can’t lie to my face. I also feel like I need more hard evidence to justify my leaving the relationships. I’m just not sure what evidence I am looking for or when I’ll get enough evidence to make a decision.
I’ve tried to get him to talk about any possible fantasies he might have and try to get him to open up sexually to me, but he never mentions any crazy things he wants to try. I mean, we probably have as much sex as every other healthy couple, so it’s not like he’s deprived. He JUST recently (in the past six months or so) opened up and started talking about masturbating, but only because I pressed the issue. He said he never wanted to discuss masterbation because he was afraid I’d make fun of him (even though I masterbate in front of him!). He also is very over protective/possessive about his blackberry! He won’t go ANYWHERE without it. No exaggeration, he sleeps with it and even takes it with him when he goes to the bathroom or showers. He also gets upset if I can somehow get ahold of it. If I ever got the chance to look and see if he made any inappropriate calls or texts, they would be deleted and gone by that time.
I am furious and upset and am not sure what to do. I know the easy answer is to leave him, but I feel like I’ve invested so much time and energy into this relationship. I know he has issues with poor self esteem so I kind of feel bad just leaving without trying to work through this with him. I feel like I owe it to him to try and help him through his issues. How do I determine if I should leave it or try to save it? I just don’t think there’s any trust left. I just feel like I gave him a second chance before – if I give him another chance this time, who’s to say he won’t do it again?

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